It's this thing, and it's called tragedy.

Mama told me when I was young
Come sit beside me, my only child
And listen closely to what I say.
And if you do this
It will help you some sunny day.
Take your time... Don't live too fast,
Troubles will come and they will pass.
Go find a man and you'll find love,
And don't forget child,
There is someone up above.
And that's me.